-- Double date if possible. Double dates can ease the tension (if you know the other couple - if not, it can be considerably worse). The main benefit is safety.

-- Always conduct early dates in very public places

-- Avoid relying on your date for transportation. Meet your date out and drive yourself. If you want to bail out early, you won't be trapped.

-- Try not to discuss each others ideal person or what each other is looking for in a companion. This can create an awkard situation.

-- Never leave your food or beverages unattended

-- Let someone know your plans in case of emergency

-- Wear clothing that you are comfortable and confident in. First dates are uncomfortable enough without a tight belt biting you around the waist.

-- Easy on the perfume or cologne

-- Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.

-- Keep the conversation light! Don't talk or ask about old boyfriends, girlfriends, or ex-spouse.

-- Find out about your dates eating habits before you plan the evening. Make sure you choose a place where they will be able to find something to eat.

-- Stay focused. Avoid taking cell phone calls or checking out the opposite sex.

-- If you are not paying be considerate of what you order. Try to stay in the middle of the menu.

-- Keep your options open. If you find you and your date just don't click on a romatic level, don't blow it off as a failure. They may have a circle of friends that you can meet and possibly date.

-- Alexa